The Decker's Adoption Journey

This is our story in starting our very own family through international adoption. We will be adopting an infant (or two) from Kazakhstan. Hopefuly we will be traveling this spring to meet and bring home our little one(s). We hope that by reading our story you are able to follow our journey and learn about the process of adoption.

Saturday, May 19, 2007

When in Rome . . .

Well here we are again, with another week down. I am not sure how many weeks we have been in Uralsk but we have made it our home which makes the time go quickly. There are so many things that have happened since I wrote last but I will do my best to share as much as possible.

First and most importantly on Friday we were finally granted the privelage of seeing our son two times a day. Yeah!! This was great as he was so suprised to see us in the morning that he laughed out loud when they brought him to us. The other big thing is that because it is so warm here we are now allowed to take him outside. This is very exciting as he has never been outside before because he has only been here in the winter. He enjoyed his first trip very much and this is now something we get to do for 15 minutes of each visit. Ma and Don he now has the first flower and first bird on his life-time list. A sparrow and a lillac.

In our spare time (which is dwindling) we have been spending it with the many Kazakh friends we have here. On Thurday we managed to run into two girls from class that took us around the open markets and helped us to get a Kazakh- english dictionary. Too bad we are still very slow to learn the crylic alphabet. It is coming, but very slowly. Yesterday we did treat ourselves to a hot shower as we have been sponge bathing due to no hot water in our apartment for the last 5 days. It is very polluted here and muggy right now, so this was a necessity.

Yesterday was also the day that our landlady cleans the apartment. One thing about our apartment is that we found it through a friend of a friend sort of arrangement. We are well aware that we are paying above kazakh prices yet we are still getting an excellent deal compared to the hotel or agency apartments. So yesterday morning she comes over and we come back a few hours later to find her still there. Well she not only cleaned but she also stuffed our refigerator full of food including soups, meats and the most amazing pastries I have ever tasted. She has a heart of gold. John and I could not stop laughing at how well all of y’alls prayers are working for us.

Last night we were once again treated to the famous Kazak hospitality. When we had dinner at friends last week we were invited by the air traffic contoller to come to a birthday party at his house the next week. As with many things here, bits of details don’t always get translated so much of our outtings are surprises to us. We took a taxi to their house to find it to be absolutly amazing. The table must have been 12 feet long and set to feed 25 people. It was piled high with food and traditional dishes including Russian caviar, traditional breads and five fingers (yes we ate horse meat again.) We kept up the motto of “when in Rome...” and had a blast. The evening included, many toasts (too many toasts!), singing of folk songs, dancing and Kareoke of all things. They owner of the home also loved Elvis so he was at the party too. What a wonderful family!

What amazes us about our time here is having the opportunity to know people for who they are as individuals. Not as a religous group, former solviets, or Kazaks, but as real people with familes, homes, dreams, and worries ... We have been very honored and blessed to have had so many wonderful memories created through the friendships we have made here.

7 Comments:

Blogger sunflowering said...

A lilac and a sparrow,
Five fingers and many friends,
A full refrigerator in a clean apartment ~

This goes way beyond adoption.

There is something very very beautiful happening during your time there. As long as it is turning out to be, it is becoming a blessing not only to y'all but to so many others there.

I am very moved by this morning's post, and just love that you are the ones who first got to take Baby Bug outside.

Love,
Sharron

4:50 AM  
Blogger Grandma and Grandpa Spell said...

What a wonderfulday:-) We have been to the coast for several days and come home to find that it has been warm enough that things need to be watered!! I hope you have someone on lawn care at your place. Beautiful blue skies and soft breezes for your son to enjoy here:-)
Love,
Jim and Beth

6:40 AM  
Blogger Don and Mom said...

I am so glad Baby Bug has started his life lists. The sparrow is much under rated as nothing special but I think they are very interesting and adaptable birds. And lilacs are one of my favorite flowers. Our "Josee" lilacs are blooming now. You two are such great parents already. To inspire a child to love and care for the environment is so important.

We are gathering things for you and will be sending them a little closer to your homecoming.

Our five baby birds (Purple Finches) on our front deck have hatched and are a big pile of fluff.

By the way, I love to try the breads of all countries. What are the traditional breads you have had. What a landlady you have. What a blessing.

Love, Ma and Don

9:51 AM  
Blogger Melissa said...

Hi Mrs.Decker!!! Its Melissa, your trip sounds so cool! I got to see your baby on the computer from Mrs. Batease! He is soo cute! Did you settle on a name for him or are you keeping it what it already was? We all miss you so much!
♥love melissa♥

9:51 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What wonderful experiences you are having there. Sharron is right, this is going way beyond adoption. I am sure the new friends you have made there will be missing you very much! You have set the standard for how American's adopting there need to act. I love that you are counting his firsts already. I must get the both of you into scrapbooking!

We have WONDERFUL family news as well. Keary called and is officially ON HIS WAY HOME FROM IRAQ! He is currently trying to "hop" his way out of Iraq and into Kuwait. A process that takes time. From there, it is again, more waiting. But after 15 long months, the homecoming "process" has started. What a joy if Keary and Baby Bug arrive in the United States at the same time!

Much love to the three of you from the three of us.

hugs to bug

Aunt Jeni

11:40 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So... when are you giong to get back? 'cause we miss you Mrs. Decker! Like melissa, i got to see the photos of the baby. He is so cute! Could you put some photos of him on the blog?

I am glad you got to take the baby outside. He must have liked it very much. The weather is good here.(hot, though.)

Missin' you

Rachel B. (and everyone else over here at MVMS.)

2:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Please understand they are not allowed to posts pictures of their son online, nor publish anywhere as that is against the rules. Please be extremely careful about this and do not email the photo to anyone. Please be patient and they will do so when it is A-OK to do so!

11:49 AM  

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